How to Avoid Being a Toxic Friend
How to Avoid Being a Toxic Friend
Hey folks! ๐โโ๏ธ
I recently read an interesting article about avoiding being a toxic friend, and I wanted to share some thoughts with you. It outlines simple ways to improve our relationships and be the kind of friend we all want to have.
Friendship is important, but sometimes, we might hurt those we care about without realizing it. Small actions can damage our relationships, even if we donโt mean any harm. Here are some simple tips to make us the kind of friends others can rely on.
1. Be Consistent
People feel stressed when they donโt know what to expect. Imagine a friend whoโs supportive one day but dismissive the next, itโs confusing! Try to be reliable in your actions and mood. Manage your emotions so that your friends donโt feel like theyโre walking on eggshells around you.
2. Donโt Assume Others Can Read Your Mind
Sometimes, we think our feelings are obvious, but theyโre not. If you appreciate someone, say it! A kind word or a โthank youโ can mean a lot more than you realize.
3. Validate Feelings, but Offer Perspective
When a friend shares their struggles, listen and show empathy. But donโt just agree with everything, they might need help seeing the situation in a new way. Ask questions like:
- Why was this event stressful for you?
- Have you learned something from this?
This approach can make them feel understood while helping them move forward.
4. Celebrate Their Wins
Friendship isnโt just about supporting each other during tough times, itโs also about sharing joy. When your friend achieves something, celebrate with them! Shared happiness, strengthens bonds just as much as shared struggles do.
By practicing these simple habits, you can nurture stronger, healthier friendships. After all, being a good friend is about treating others the way youโd like to be treated. โค๏ธ
If you are interested to read the full article, visit here: How to Avoid Being a Toxic Friend. ๐
Oh wow, this is such an informative post, Sahana! ๐ I like how you’ve talked about the importance of maintaining consistency and celebrating wins-friendship, in general, is dependent on mutualism and enjoyment shared between the two. The tip about training feelings and guiding perspective was especially strong-it indicates real concern and understanding. Thanks for these thought-provoking reminders on how to be a better friend. โค๏ธ๐